Scheduling Chores for Kids

August19

Last week when I shared my schedule, I was asked to share about how I schedule chores for my children. I usually do it based upon age–the youngest gets the simplest chores, while the older ones get the more complicated chores.

Basically, what I did was make a list of all the chores I wanted the kids to learn how to do. This is part of our schooling and we consider this home-ec. They are also learning cooking, budgeting, running a house, and grocery shopping under home-ec as well.

My list of chores looks something like this:

Monday

Dishes washed

laundry completed

dust furniture

Tuesday

Clean the bathroom

Dishes washed

laundry completed

Wednesday

Vacuum floors

Sweep and mop kitchen and bathroom

Dishes washed

Thursday

Wash windows

take out trash

dishes washed

laundry completed

Friday

Tidy whatever needs tidying this day

Each day the kids get assigned chores. Sometimes they work together to complete it and other times they work alone. I try not to do everything in one day because it makes for a long day of cleaning–and everyone pitches in and helps at supper time which makes the evening go so much smoother for me.

The thing to remember is that all those little things that you do to train and raise your children make a world of difference. Don’t give up or give in just because it is getting a little harder. Perseverance and patience will pay off in the end.

Monday Munchies

August9

I have to confess I’m a snacker, are you?

Here are 10 fairly healthy choices, all of which are about 100 calories or less. Sure beats 4 handfuls of chips or a stack of cookies!

1 hard-boiled egg

2 tablespoons hummus with 12 grape tomatoes

½ apple with 2 teaspoons peanut butter

¼ cup fat-free ranch dressing with one cup raw veggies (like zucchini sticks, pepper strips, celery, grape tomatoes)

2-inch slice angel food cake

string cheese (1 serving)

1 cup of strawberries

½ of a banana

25 seedless grapes

½ of a medium cantaloupe

Do you have a favorite healthy snack to add to the list?

“Do Overs” & “Did Rights”!

August2

I’m traveling and didn’t have the opportunity for any Weekend Wonders this week. However, I thought I’d initiate some discussion with this topic instead. I’d love to hear your thoughts!

I recently read this post from Ginger, a regular Molly reader (and commenter!) blogging at Clark Chatter and thought, “What a Great Idea for a Readers Helping Readers post”. Here are some financial decisions I would “do over” if I could.

-In my early years I ate out a LOT! Huge waste of money.

-I also used to buy clothing at Maurice’s and  Macy’s and such. Not necessarily on sale. Honestly, I don’t think I looked much better then than I do now.

-I would refuse “gifts that keep on taking”. We were once given a horse that ended up being a larger burden than we were ready to bear. That “free” puppy can easily cost you $500 in the first year when you consider neutering, shots, food, boarding when on vacation and potentially destroyed property.

And here are some financial decisions I feel that I did right the first time.

-Forgo the large wedding. An intimate gathering with friends and family holds the same meaning and doesn’t leave you starting out your future together in debt.

-Buy a fixer-upper. This is NOT for the faint-of-heart or impatient, but has proven to be a valuable investment for us. I repeat, patience is key if you go this route. (Do-it-yourself skills are helpful as well!)

-Live in a small town. Recreation and eating out is limited by the fact that there’s just nowhere to go! No ordering in a quick pizza, snagging a Starbucks on the way home or running to the movie. Yes, we can easily drive the 20 miles (and often do), but not nearly so much as when I lived in a larger town.

-Yard sales. I’ve saved a FORTUNE by visiting yard sales. No need to say more.

-Learn to determine the difference between “wants” and “needs”. This ties closely with learning to stay out of stores. If I don’t see it, I don’t want it.

-Use the library! You can find everything DVDs, novels, movies, cookbooks, craft books, educational texts and so much more!

-Develop like-minded friends. It’s easier to cultivate an attitude of contentment when you’re surrounded by people who share your values. Similarly, it’s easy to feel you “need” something that all of your friends have. Choose friends, both in real life and online, that will encourage you in your quest toward frugality and financial independence.

What about you? What do you wish you’d done differently and what do you think you did right? I’d love to hear!

Freebie Friday

July30

As you read this, my team and I are getting to meet for the first time today! I am so excited about getting to see everyone “face-to-face”.

Here are the freebies for this week:

  • Macy’s is offering 4 free Kidz Bop music downloads.
  • Bath and Body Works just released a new coupon! Head on over here to print a coupon valid for a FREE Anti-Bacterial Hand Soap (up to a $5 value) with any $10 purchase, valid thru August 29th.
  • Head on over here to score a FREE Schiff Move Free Advanced Starter Kit! Allow 4-6 weeks for delivery.
  • Baskin Robbins just released a rare coupon. Head on over here to print a buy one get one free Soft Serve cone coupon, valid thru 8/8/10! My kiddos will be excited about this one!
  • Free Books of the Bible E-Chart from Rose Publishing.
  • www.uddercovers.com has a new promotion going where you can get any of our nursing covers (regular price $32) free! The code is “Thanks”. If you’re not currently nursing, this is your chance to stock up on great baby shower and Holiday gifts! Once you get to the site, click on “Shop Now” and select the cover or gift set you would like. Type “Thanks” into the promo code box and it will bring your product total to $0. All you pay is the shipping. You can use the code more than once – you just have to open a new browser window to do so. They are selling fast and we are not sure how long this promo will last. Good Luck!
  • If you have a Michael’s in your area, check out all these free events you can go to. Make things and get free stuff, plus learn some new skills on the side!
  • Papermate Pens are just $0.50 this week at Target. Get a package for FREE when you use the $0.50/1 Papermate Target coupon.
  • Get a free SeaPak Recipe Book featuring 15 meals for $10 or less. This offer is available to U.S. residents for a limited time.
  • Get a FREE Azzaro Chrome fragrance sample when you send an email to AzzaroConsumerRelations@ClarinsUSA.com and request a  sample including your mailing address and info. It is unclear where this offer will ship to.
  • Get a FREE Mariani Tote Bag or Honey Bar (not sure which you get) when you sign up and use the code 23224. This offer is available to U.S. residents while supplies last.
  • Get a FREE sample of Boss Bottled Night fragrance when you fill out the request form. This offer is available internationally for a limited time.
  • Get a FREE product coupon for Better Oats when you fill out the request form. This offer is available to U.S. residents while supplies last.
  • Next time you are grocery shopping, be on the lookout for TGI Friday’s Turkey and Bacon Quesadillas with Try Me Free rebates attached to them. The rebate is good for the full purchase price up to $3.99 through 10/2011.
  • Free PowerBar Sample! Try this new product from PowerBar for FREE!
  • Click here to receive a FREE sample from Kotex. This offer is available to the continental U.S. while supplies last.
  • Grace To You is offering the book “Truth Endures” for FREE. To sign up, click on “request offer” and then scroll down until you see the form. This offer is available through 8/19/10
  • The Dolly Parton Imagination Library gives a FREE book each month to kids ages 5 and under. This program is not available in all areas. To find out if the program is available in your area or to register, click here.
  • Colorado State Parks will celebrate Colorado Day on Monday, Aug. 2 by offering FREE entrance at all 42 state parks. All other fees, including camping and reservations will remain in effect on Aug. 2.
  • Staples is celebrating Teacher Appreciation Day with a FREE thank you gift to the first 100 teachers, while supplies last. You can select your location in the link to find the date of the event in your area.
  • Office Depot is having a Teacher Appreciation Week where there will be discounts all week on certain products. Join them that Saturday to enjoy a FREE breakfast and giveaways. To find when this event will be taking place in your local store, click “find your event date” in the small black box under the advertisement.

The J.M. Smucker Company
Attention: Peanut Butter Recipe Collection (or Smucker’s Classic Cookie Recipe Collection)
Consumer Relations Department
P.O. Box 280
Orrville, Ohio 44667

Happy Friday friends!

WFMW: Freeze your paintbrushes

July28

This is a trick I’ve used for many years. If you’re like me, you seldom have the opportunity to completely finish a painting job. When I’m forced to stop in the middle of  a project, I wrap my brush or roller in plastic wrap and store them in the fridge or freezer. I put them in the fridge if I’ll be getting back to the job within 24 hours. Otherwise, I stick them in the freezer. Thaw them out and they’re ready to go!

Do be sure and allow for thaw time. Though I’ve found a blow dryer can do wonders to speed things up.

To see more Works for Me Wednesday tips visit We Are That Family.

Frugal Clothes Shopping

July16

I just finished watching Courtney’s new VLOG from Women Living Well. It’s on how to shop for clothes on a budget. Thought you might like to see it  as well.

Share Molly FRESH! With Your Readers!

July15

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Here are some buttons and banners you can grab to share Molly FRESH! with your readers. It’s a great freebie sure to be enjoyed by everyone! Just grab the code below the banner or button of your choice and place on your blog. Thanks for sharing!









Why I Eat What I Eat

July3

I recently received this email and know there are probably others of you wondering the same thing.

Dear Molly,

I understand that in some of your recent posts, you are going gluten-free? My family and I are doing the same thing, and it is a challenge to find good gluten free recipes.  Can you share more?  Also, maybe share your personal experiences of going gluten free, like why you are, how you are doing and challenges you face day to day being gluten free.

Thanks!

~Karen

My challenge in responding is that I (Molly) am blogged by a talented team of women with varying backgrounds and life experiences. This helps to make me even more of an “everywoman”, relating to women in all different stages and stations of life. If you’ve been reading this year’s Digests, you’ll have read their individual frugal journey stories in our February through June issues.  However, I can see where it can become confusing where food comes in. You’ll see me write about gluten-free resources, then post an amazing cake recipe! So, I figured the best way to respond to the above question is to let those of our Molly team members who deal with food issues share firsthand.

Toni:

I avoid garlic, soy, and most dairy products because I’m allergic and/or have an intolerance.  The challenge that comes with it is that we have to read every label on every can/package we buy because almost everything has soy or garlic in it.  Eating at restaurants or at a friend’s house is often difficult, but I’ve been this way for about 5 years so I know which restaurants I can eat at and what I’m able to order off each of their menus.  I don’t generally eat at people’s houses unless I know them really well.  We improvise on a lot of recipes and in order to eat Italian foods we make our own sauce.  We get super excited when we find seasonings or premade sauces that are garlic free!

You probably already know this, but $5 Dinners has a section of recipes that are gluten, soy, and dairy free.

Eleanor:

Both my oldest daughter and I have celiac disease. Actually, it’s estimated that 1 in 133 people are affected by celiac disease and that 97% of those people have not been diagnosed!

Basically, if a person has celiac disease, his or her body creates antibodies that react to gluten (found in wheat, barley, and rye.) This reaction attacks and destroys the intestinal lining, doing far-reaching damage in the long term and causing sickness in the short term. So we must avoid all products that contain those grains. It’s harder than it seems! So many foods contain derivatives of wheat, barley and rye.

But there’s good news! More and more gluten-free products are becoming available all the time—though they tend to be very expensive. Good news for frugal folk is that cooking from scratch, using healthy foods like fruit, vegetables, brown rice, potatoes, and unprocessed meats is the best way a celiac can eat!

We make a very good gluten-free pizza every week, and we use pasta made from brown rice. It’s delicious! We do a fair bit of baking bread and muffins from scratch—it’s far cheaper and tastier than buying pre-baked gluten free products.

You can find lots of information about celiac disease visit www.celiac.org.

Dena:

One of my boys is allergic to milk and reacts immediately upon ingesting any. He’s developed a very good attitude as he often has to refuse deserts at birthday parties or dishes/deserts at potlucks. I usually keep a small container of sorbet in the freezer for him to have in place of ice cream. We’ve also discovered that Ghiradelli Semi-Sweet chocolate chips are dairy free. I also keep some Nucoa margarine on hand for him. I also keep powdered Rice Milk on hand so that I can mix it up to use in recipes in place of milk. (I don’t tend to use the liquid milk fast enough and the dry mix allows me to make up just the amount I need). Casseroles are often off limits as they include cream soups or cheese. However, many times I’m able to just make a portion separately for him, leaving out the offending ingredient. (If you haven’t downloaded Molly FRESH! be sure and do so. All the recipes are free from processed ingredients and it’s free!)

In December, my husband, who has suffered from extreme digestive issues cut out wheat and found a marked improvement. I don’t believe he suffers from Celiac disease because small amounts, like what is found in licorice or soy sauce didn’t have a noticeable effect. But avoiding wheat products dramatically eased his digestive problems, so we thought perhaps it was an allergy.

However, in doing some recent reading I began to learn about Candida overgrowth and was quite sure this was what my husband was suffering from. He had nearly all of the many seemingly unrelated symptoms. And it made sense that avoiding wheat would help as the yeast feed off wheat. So he has been on a yeast detox for the last several weeks and is feeling SO much better! He has also been taking a probiotic supplement targeted to ridding the body of yeast. He has been able to drop some of his medication, many symptoms have subsided and he has a great deal more energy. That sad thing is that doctors tend to treat this  with medication that simply masks the symptoms and does nothing to address the problem. At this time he is avoiding all wheat and sugar. This includes milk, fruit and more. So it’s fairly strict, but the results have been worth it. Down the road, he should be able to add healthy foods back in slowly, but he’ll need to always watch the amount of wheat and sugar he consumes.

And yes, it is difficult. We had a Father’s Day breakfast at church and it was decided that we would serve breakfast casserole. Neither my husband or son could eat them. So I just brought some eggs and sausage for them and cooked them up there. Basically, I’ve found that it requires constant thinking/planning ahead, but it’s certainly not impossible.

I have personally been on a fairly strict diet and have noticed a great increase in energy since I cut out processed foods (and my Diet Pepsi). We’re planning to work at eating more healthy as a family. We do have an Adventist grocery store nearby and I’m able to get amazing produce at great prices, as well as many bulk foods, so that has been a real blessing.

Jennifer:

Jennifer’s family is “normal” and she’s the one you’ll find posting all the wonderful Pioneer Woman recipes!!

So there you have it! We all have different experiences and are doing what we are for different reasons. What about you? We’d love to hear your stories. What are you doing in regard to your diet and why? What challenges do you face and how do you overcome them?

To find resources and ideas be sure and check out the “gluten free” link in my sidebar. Or click this link to get a good start. From there you can click “older” and “newer” to find even more resources. Enjoy!

WFMW: Q & R

June30

My July Digest feature is Summer Fun From A to Z and I thought I’d share a sneak peek (Q & R) with you here. Molly Members will find the new Digest in your Member Pages on the first. I know you’re going to love this issue. The Something Old, Something New column is particularly amazing!

Q: Quirky places to visit – Roadside America is such a fun site! It features a huge collection of offbeat destinations. Search by state to see what may be nearby. Even if you never visit any of these places in real life, an Internet tour alone is entertaining! Wondering where to find the world’s largest tire . . . or the site of the first train robbery in the Wild West? You might want to search Roadside America! Who knows what you
might find just around the corner from home.

R: Road trips - MomsMinivan.com is one of the best sites out there for preparing for a road trip with your family. Another good one is WeJustGotBack.com (tons of great free tips here.) I also talked about road trips at length in my June 2009 Digest titled Frugal Family Vacations. (Molly Members will be pleased to find Frugal Family Travel as one of your freedownloads in July as well!)

Summer family travel fun works for me! For more Works for Me Wednesday tips visit We Are that Family.

Weekend Wonders: Decor (and stuff)

June14

This week’s bargain was finding a like new sofa pillow for $1. The neat part was that I’d been considering purchasing the exact same pillow at the store for $12.99 only days earlier! Yay!

I also purchased a pretty plate (25 cents), a necklace (25 cents) and two aluminum water bottles (50 cents each). So I was able to buy all the above for only $2.50.

To see just how well the pillow matches my curtain fabric, check this out:

How about you? Any good deals this week?

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